This post deserved to come online way back and I take total responsibility for keeping it waiting for this long.

Some things.. you want to make it sound perfect. Do justice to the feelings, through your words. So, I tried ..and kept trying. Then, it looked like, the post would never make it here if I tried longer. So, here are my words on the Virtual BabyShower Story..not perfect, but heartfelt.

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Look at the Lovely little Cutie pies in the picture below -


Know what is common among all of them, other than the adorable chubby cheeks? All here are the current generation of lively, young and spirited blogger ladies of today. :)

And, if at all there is anyone who is curious to know what brings them all in the picture together? They are the wonderful virtual sisters of mine…or let us say aunts to my baby-to-be, who made this tired and heavy pregnant soul SO HAPPY that she broke into tears of joy one day.

It was Jan 4 and I came to work as usual. Found a curiously inviting line as a comment on my previous post which said “Got something for you on the blog babe. Come, get it!!!” and I clicked on her blog link.

Starting from there, what followed was this thrilling journeyof blog hopping, instructed by poetic little clues and puzzles. I was left amazed, to say the least. Amazed that so many of blogger girls were involved. Amazed that I was completely oblivious to any of these or the planning all along!

To be honest,I did not take an extra minute to stop and admire the witty usage of words and the creativity involved in forming the puzzles on each site. Though, I did that later in liesure, the clue hunt was way too exciting at that moment. :D

Some answers were easy  guesses, some were tad tough, but some others were so mind wracking difficult ( at least for me!),that there was much frowning and head scratching, literally. The one girl who was part of it all and was constantly online with me, on chat, was far from being helpful (Hmmph). Who knew she was a secret spy trasmitting live status updates of my poor ‘hunting’ skills to the rest of the gang ;)

Almost getting there, being misled by trouble makers, tracing path back and forth like a headless chicken – all happened. :D

Finally, all is well that ends well. But, all is FANTAFABULOUS!  if it ends with something like THIS.

Totally surprised and feeling utterly humbled,I read through the pages..savoring each word, every picture and often rubbing off the brimming water in the eyes ..to let me read more.

There is nothing I can compare the feeling to. Really.

“Thank You” will not suffice, but I do want every one of the 16 of you , from the 6 different countries, to know that – You have no idea what a brilliant gift you have given us. For one,t he thought of so many sweet souls ( not one that I know in person!) getting together for this purpose, will bring me the happiest smile, every single time. :)

You gave me one of those precious memories to cherish all the way.. hoping to narrate to my grandkid ( if at all) with pride one day!

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On a side note, the little one is growing bigger by the day. My stomach looks like a giant cantaloupe ready to burst. :P
I waddle like a sedated penguin who stops every 15 steps to take an extra breath to carry the extra weight :D

Not all is bad though. Random comments from various people offers much entertainment at this stage. Samples below:

  • “Eighth month?? Oh, you don’t look that big at all!”
    ( Very nice try. God bless you lady :D )
  • “First one? Hehe. You will get used to it by your second or third”
    ( Hehe.Okay.Now, please eff off)

  • “Do you want water? No? Do you want juice? No? Do you want water?No? Do you..?
    ( First, I need absolutely no fluids of any kind.No water too, no. Second, we are standing in the wash area of the restroom for Gods sake. Let me go use the loo please?)

  • “My cousin had a 26 hour labor.Suffered much.See, that is exactly why we should never have kids.”
    ( Hmm. Okay, now what is your point again..telling such a thing looking straight into my eye, smart lady?)

  • “You know, you should not do anything that you are NOT good at when you are pregnant.Then, your baby will really suck at it big time! Hahahaha!”
    ( Can you move away from me wierd man? Your low IQ PJs are bothering my unborn child.)

Who said being pregnant is not all fun? :P

If that isn’t enough, here is a picture to prove, from last weekend. The Office Winter Gala party had some amazing music and a happening dance floor. My colleagues, freinds and the hubby tried hard to stop me..but is there a rule banning women with gigantic stomachs from dancing in parties ? ;)

Heard this more than once that evening -  “Oh, slow down.We don’t want the baby coming today!”

Of course, s/he didn’t come …..s/he was way too busy inside, swaying with mamma :)

As of today, my countdown calendar says ” 36 days to go

Excited, nervous, scared ..and anxious.

Please keep us in your good thoughts.

Take care :)

You know the one reason I hate doing bullet point update posts? It steals the thunder from the one among them that deserves it :D

But, this time, there have been more than one contesting for the ‘thunder’ and hence the post in points :

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Bigger Home: The 1 bedroom condo we lived in could not possibly take any more stuff for even a tiny baby nor could it comfortably accommodate parents coming down to stay with us. So, the search for a 2 bedroom house started way back in September. Given our budget (H is a BIG KANJOOS when it comes to $$ going for rent), and our long list of criteria, we were slowly losing hope on finding a house of our dreams. One evening, things just fell into place like magic and we found one! The cozy living room with a fireplace and the pretty little private garden area were irresistible. It did not satisfy all our criteria nor did it fit within our budget, but we both okayed the house and signed the lease..all within a few hours! Packing, moving and all those tedious tasks happened.

What followed next was one long mega serial sort of undertaking by a hormonal pregnant lady. Not to mention, her chronic nesting instincts :P   I did everything short of punching H’s face when things were not set exactly in the position I wanted them. Please be considerate and realize that H’s idea of unpacking boxes is to randomly dump the contents in no specific order or intention..anywhere within arm’s reach. Which means socks can get into the book shelf and the tool box can sit inside the bedding drawer. *Double Sigh!* So, finally the saga is over and the house looks like a neat home. A hand-down crib for the baby is in place too! :D

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The Hawaii Holiday: Have you heard of the term ‘Babymoon’? You know, something like the ‘Honeymoon’, but for couples who go out on a vacay before the arrival of their first baby. No? Me too! Got to know of the term  through some ‘well informed’ friends and acquaintances. So, we just called the pre-planned trip to the Hawaiian Islands,  our ‘Babymoon’ :D

To summarize, I could just say – Fantastic tropical whether, awesome beaches, scenic hikes, beautiful cruises and one adventurous chopper ride above the breathtaking landscapes of Jurassic park! ( yes, the part I of the movie was shot in the island we visited and we hovered above the exact same waterfall in the dense forests). Pics posted below do not actually do justice to the real thing:

Golden sandy beaches

A piece of the ocean..as seen from the chopper above

Bird's perspective of the HUGE waterfalls below

My little (he)art on the sands

Most memorable part, if you ask me, is that day when we hiked up near one gorgeous green mountain called ‘Iao Needle’. At the top most viewing point, as me and H silently stood holding each other and letting ourselves drown in that mesmerizing beauty of mother nature, we noticed three old ladies observing us. A quick smile and a ‘hi’ later, we got talking. All the three ladies must have been past 50 by age and wore colorful long dresses with crafty stone necklaces. All three had perfectly white silvery hair and the same loving look in their eyes. And, all they spoke was my big tummy! They touched it and blessed it, gave me a dozen tips to have a safe and happy delivery. I was humbled and amused at those wonderful words coming from complete strangers. When I asked them who they were, one of them smiled and said “Just call us your Midwife Angels”. I thanked and left ..without daring to turn back. What if they were truly from the heavens and had disappeared! H says they were tourists just being nice. I still think of them as Fairy Godmothers who came to bless my baby :D

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Surprise Surprise!: We have been looking to buy a washer dryer for the new place and last weekend H told me about this hot deal he got to know through a friend. The appliance was selling brand new and at a great price. We got ready to go and see. I got into an old top and trousers while H dressed up elaborately in his new sweater, crisp pants and nice shoes. I kept teasing him for acting silly, being overdressed for a  mere washer dryer. Well, who knew? We arrived at the place making small talk. When the big door opened up to 50+ people shouting “SURPRISE!!”, I realized I had stepped into my own Baby Shower Party! I could put a hundred exclamation marks here to tell how shocked and thrilled I was! :D Almost every face of the person I call ‘friend’ here was there with their family and kids. H was a part of the whole scheme initiated and organized by his sister ( yes, my SIL rocks!). Mouth wide open in disbelief and tears of joy rolling down.. THE BEST MOMENT EVER! :)

There was some good food and nice baby theme decor, lots of chatting and laughing, cake cutting and cheer. All the while I kept thanking my stars for such good people around me..the people I call my own.

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Holidays and a Brand New Year : All you awesome people out there, have a wonderful holiday season. Make Merry, Laugh a Lot and Feel Great!

The year 2009 might have been all good or mostly bad or a mix of both. Leave the lousy part behind, just take the precious nice ones along and move forward into a Bright New Year.

Happy 2010 you all ! * Muah *

First off, one BIG sorry for not having put the update as promised in the last post. From the day after the major ultrasound, I have been itching to write a post about it all. But, I am one of those who want to accomplish a lot in a day and end up doing just the fraction of it.Hmmph! Much happening at office and even more happening on weekends with cousins and friends…just more reasons for me to procrastinate posting. :P

Here is a glimpse of Diwali and then recently Halloween!

Lovin' the lighs and sparks

Lovin' the lighs and sparks

 Flapper from the 1920's..Halloween dress up ;)

Am a Flapper from the 1920's ;)

Coming to the point of this post – The big Ultrasound session where they tell the sex of the baby!

The day of the appointment arrived, but me and H still did not arrive at a decision. “To find out or not?”
If you know even a bit of the anxious me, you know which side I took :)

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Planning the name or going shopping for pink or blue is the least of my concerns (in fact, hate that color segregation). My biggest point of argument – When I can, why can’t I just know ahead of time and start dreaming about my little Daughter or Son? Why should I keep a hazy baby picture in my imagination when I have the option for a clear delightful one?

But H had his points. He would not miss the thrill and utter delight of announcing “It’s a Boy!” or “It’s a Girl!” on the day of His/Her arrival. He kept insisting that he wants a surprise. Lots of coaxing and pleading only led to a stern ” Ok, go ahead and find out. But, don’t ever tell me! I shall find out when the baby comes.”

Sigh. Now, that kind of a statement is supremely unrealistic… How can I know and keep it to myself??!! :P

Anyway, my argument was ONE versus the entire army of people in the family. Not just the H and his folks, but mine too :(  Everyone just wanted a surprise, the traditional way.

So, when I lay on the bed at the Ultrasound session straining my neck to get a clear glance at the picture on the monitor and when the technician asked me “I have seen the sex of the baby. You wanna know?”…..I looked at the H to find an answer.

He was facing the monitor directly, watching his baby move and change postures. There was just one big happy grin on his face, least bothered about what I would answer to the technician lady.

I could have just said a “yes” and be jumping in joy announcing to the world right now. But, something in the heart  just ticked off at that moment and made me say “We cannot decide that yet. Can you please give it to us in a sealed envelope instead?”

“Oh, really?”

“Yes”

“Okay, you guys can open it together when you decide to know, if at all”

“Hmm..that’s the idea” :)

So, we have an envelope with a little piece of paper that says “BOY” or “GIRL” inside. Sealed and kept under the drawer just below God’s place at home. Still intact.

I did hover around the place a lot initially and even tried holding it up to the light for a sneak peek inside ;)

But now, I feel good about the decision I made. If that makes everyone else happy, I can wait a few more months……the little prince/princess will come to me anyway :D

There’s one little twist to the story though. The technician was a young lady who explained all the captures on the monitor and showed us the details – arms, legs, feet, spinal cord, face, lips, eyes…

At one point she exclaimed, “Look, She is sucking her thumb!

Did you notice THE MOST IMPORTANT WORD there??? :D

Yes, it could be a SHE after all…unless that technician lady was just using a generic term. But, hey, ‘HE’ is more generic usually, no?

I still have the sealed envelope and I still have my hazy dreams…but more often than not, I have been imagining my baby in a frock, two tiny ponytails and dimples, one on each cheek :)

Sharing some very precious pictures of my baby here..the black and whites from the ultrasound. The first one shows a facing up relaxed posture from the side view . You can see the face, stomach and folded legs. The spinal chord is also visible at this stage. The second one is also a side view, rather blurry. But, know what is awesome about it? She/He is clearly holding up her palm ..waving a ‘Hii!” , you see ? :D

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Now, wish the best for this little one…to grow Healthy, Happy and Smart!

Will ya please ?

:)

At 4 months and a week now, I jotted down things that pregnancy has brought me. When does a smile come in and when does a cringe happen. Here goes:

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Smile

- Hubby waking me up with a kiss on the forehead followed by another on the tummy.

- Hubby actually remembering (without reminders!) and making me hot chocolate in  the morning, cutting and packing fruits for lunch dessert, lovingly hiding cookies and other snacks in my carry bag for office hungry hours.

- The extra attention from friends and cousins. Expected to do the least and pampered the most – bliss! :D

- The wide range of maternity clothing options and a long day of shopping for them in the mall.

- An impromptu visit to the Ice cream shop late in the night for a  No-Guilt-Ice-Cream-loaded-with-chocolate-chips-and-roasted-nuts. What calories?  The doc wants me to have lotsa milk products, fruits and nuts ;)

- Appa Amma and the in-laws checking on me every day and reminding Hubby to be nice to me…every single time! Hehehe.

- The caring enquiries about what I am craving for and actually having some of  them cooked and brought home by awesome friends and relatives here.

- Telling out to an unsuspecting (or so I think) acquaintance or colleague that ‘I am having a baby!’ and watching their face bloom into a happy smile followed by a hearty hug.

- Just lying down on the bed and softly moving my hands over the bulging tummy and imaging what s/he is up to :)

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Cringe

- Waking up every morning feeling heavier than the day before.

- Mid night trips to the loo. The bladder wins over sleepy eyes and tired head, every single time. Arrgh!

- Frequent throbbing head aches which are manageable, but annoying nevertheless.  They don’t need a reason nor an invitation (of course!).

- Dressing up ( to the office, a casual get together or a grand party ) means sitting and staring at those nice looking ‘before’ clothes in the wardrobe and  feeling depressed at how big you have gotten for any of them now. Sigh!

- The sex, or the lack of it :( The first 3 months was a total dry spell, thanks to  the doc who wanted us to ‘take it easy’ because she saw some unexpected fluid outside the sac in my uterus. It’s well over the 4th month now and we have had interesting nights for not more than 2 times hence. What is with the hubby acting with all care and affection in bed when I would really appreciate some love and action!

- The hands-tied-down feeling when I am not able to go dandia dancing on navarathri nights, go river rafting on a weekend trip, go biking or running when I  feel like it, go on any more adventurous vacation for some time to come. I know, I  can still take up any/all of these. Many do. But, my history with pregnancy added with the paranoid advices and suggestions from everybody who cares, has actually  tied me up. I stay satisfied with long walks, leisurely non adventure trips,  some lucky days at the riverside strolling barefoot on the wet pebbles.

- Enquiring and advising is all fine. But, I really DO NOT want unsolicited suggestions and tips from few of those nosy women who think they are the gurus of it all  since they have had one or two kids. Each woman is different and please understand  that I cannot be you and do exactly what you ate, said or did.

- My list of food cravings is short, very short. The first line says ‘Fruits’,  second says ‘Any dish tangy and spicy’ and the last line ( in big bold letters)  says ‘Amma’s hand cooked meals’. Enough said. I miss my Amma ( yes Appa too) so very much….come to me soooooon :(

- The thought of the D-day when I will go into labor..the hysterical pain, the crying. I can almost imagine it and tears of fear swell up. Billions have gone through it, so what big deal with me now, you ask? I have not been in any of their shoes and have only heard stories from people…in fact witnessed one closely.My daily prayers involve pleading to the Gods to make it all right..give me enough strength for a safe and normal delivery.Enough strength to look at my baby and hold it close with a smile..before passing out from exhaustion maybe ;)

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I realize that the pluses totally outweigh the minuses when it comes to the final result. I can’t wait to hold that warm little wrapped bundle in my arms with two rosy cheeks and a pair of twinkling eyes peeping out curiously :)

By the way, Happy Dussehra to all those who celebrate. Be good and have fun!

Will bring you latest updates from the doc’s room in a few weeks. Maybe.. just maybe… I will have an announcement – BOY or GIRL ! :D

Watch this space ;)

At 4 months and a week now, I jotted down things that pregnancy has brought me. When does a smile come in and when does a cringe happen. Here goes:
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Smile
- Hubby waking me up with a kiss on the forehead followed by another on the tummy.
- Hubby actually remembering (without reminders!) and making me hot milk chocolate in  the morning, fruits cut and packed for lunch dessert, cookies and other snacks lovingly packed and hidden in my carry bag for office hungry hours.
- The extra attention I receive from friends and cousins. Expected to do the least and pampered the most – bliss! :D
- The wide range of maternity clothing options and a long day of shopping for them in the mall.
- An impromptu visit to the Ice cream shop late in the night for a  No-Guilt-Ice-Cream-loaded-with-chocolate-chips-and-roasted-nuts. What calories?  The doc wants me to have lotsa milk products, fruits and nuts ;)
- Appa Amma and the in-laws checking on me every day and reminding Hubby to be nice to me…every single time! Hehehe.
- The caring enquiries about what I am craving for and actually having some of  them cooked and brought home by awesome friends and relatives here.
- Telling out to an unsuspecting ( or so I think) acquaintance or colleague that  ’I am having a baby!’. and watching their face bloom into a happy smile followed by a hearty hug.
- Just lying down on the bed and softly moving my hands over the bulging tummy and imaging what s/he is up to :)
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Cringe
- Waking up every morning feeling heavier than the day before.
- Mid night trips to the loo. The bladder wins over sleepy eyes and tired head, every single time. Arrgh!
- Frequent throbbing head aches which are manageable, but annoying nevertheless.  They don’t need a reason nor an invitation (of course!).
- Dressing up ( to the office, a casual get together or a grand party ) means sitting and staring at those nice looking ‘before’ clothes in the wardrobe and  feeling depressed at how big you have gotten for any of them now. Sigh!
- The sex, or the lack of it :( The first 3 months was a total dry spell, thanks to  the doc who wanted us to ‘take it easy’ because she saw some unexpected fluid outside the sac in my uterus. It’s well over the 4th month now and we have had interesting nights for not more than 2 times hence. What is with the hubby acting with all care and affection in bed when I would really appreciate some love and action!
- The hands-tied-down feeling when I am not able to go dandia dancing on navarathri nights, go river rafting on a weekend trip, go biking or running when I  feel like it, go on any more adventurous vacation for some time to come. I know, I  can still take up any/all of these. Many do. But, my history with pregnancy added with the paranoid advices and suggestions from everybody who cares, has actually  tied me up. I stay satisfied with long walks, leisurely non adventure trips,  some lucky days at the riverside strolling barefoot on the wet pebbles.
- Enquiring and advising is all fine. But, I really DO NOT want unsolicited  suggestions and tips from those few women who think they are the gurus of it all  since they have had one or two kids. Each woman is different and please understand  that I cannot be you and do exactly what you ate, said or did.
- My list of food cravings is short, very short. The first line says ‘fruits’,  second says ‘any dish tangy and spicy’ and the last line ( in big bold letters)  says ‘Amma’s hand cooked meals’. Enough said. I miss my Amma ( yes Appa too) so  very much….come to me soooooon :(
- The thought of the D-day when I will go into labor..the hysterical pain, the  crying. I can almost imagine it and tears of fear swell up. Billions have gone through it, so what big deal with me now? I have not been in any of their shoes and have only heard stories from people…in fact witnessed one closely.My daily prayers involve pleading to the Gods to make it all right….give me enough strength for a safe and normal delivery. Enough strength to look at my baby and hold it close with a smile..before passing out ;)
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I realize that the pluses totally outweigh the minuses when it comes to the final result. I can’t wait to hold that warm little bundle in my arms with two rosy cheeks and a pair of twinkling eyes peeping out curiously :)
By the way, Happy Dussehra to all those who celebrate. Be good and have fun!
Will bring you latest updates from the doc’s room in a few weeks. Maybe.. just maybe… I will have an announcement – BOY or GIRL ! :D
Watch this space :)

It has been a while since I posted here and it was not exactly writer’s block. It was a plain refusal by the mind to write down anything else except the “BIG NEWS”.

For anyone who has been reading this space – Easy guess!

I am gonna be a Mommy! :D

The last incident took away most of the initial excitement and cheer of a couple who finds out they are pregnant. It was mostly anxious and hopeful waiting.

This time, when I found out, I smiled with a few tears lingering..that never made it to the cheeks. There was joy waiting to bubble and burst..but held back and bottled up. We wanted to give nature enough time to decide whether we should be celebrating or not.

The last three months have not exactly been easy. The pregnancy symptoms were minimal – some nausea here and there, getting tired now and then. But, silencing that nagging little fear inside the heart was difficult..very.

Days passed on and there were no bad signs from where I could see. The first doctor appointment was nearing and I shuddered every time thinking of the possibility…doctor staring at the screen of that ultrasound machine and saying  ”Cannot find the baby. May be it has left”. I had no strength or courage to endure the agony again. No…

However, the prayers worked and nature was kind this time around. Me and the hubby could hardly  believe our eyes when the doctor showed us a tiny baby figure floating on that screen! And then there was a heartbeat!! A little flicker..strong and steady..lub-dub-lub-dub-lub-dub..

We hugged each other right there in front of the doctor and there were no words coming out..just some happy gasps and teary giggles.

Our baby has made it this time..has decided to come to us, healthy and safe..

The prenatal visits and check ups so far have been fine. The last one was yesterday when I confirmed from the doctor that it was safe to announce our news to the world.

There is a long way to go until March 10 2010 (expected date of arrival), but it’s  time for me to sit back, relax and enjoy the ride now :)

That's my little baby bump!

See the little baby bump?

A little birdie from the internet told me that the baby is about 3.5 inches in size by now and already making tiny facial expressions – squint, frown, grimace and  possibly sucking thumb! :D While the liver, spleen and brain are developing rapidly, the baby is busy sleeping or stretching out and curling the toes :)

Send your good wishes and some prayers this way people…the little one and the anxious mommy need it at every growing stage now.

Know what? It feels great to tell the news out here…it was as if I am hiding a big secret from a close friend all this while.

Phew! :)

It has been a while since I posted here and it was not exactly writer’s block. It was a plain refusal by the mind to write down anything else except the “BIG NEWS”.
For anyone who has been reading this space – Easy guess!
I am gonna be a Mommy! :D
The last incident took away most of the initial excitement and cheer, replacing it with anxious and hopeful waiting.
This time, when I found out, I smiled with a few tears lingering..that never made it to the cheeks. There was joy waiting to bubble and burst..but held back and bottled up. We wanted to give nature enough time to decide whether we should be celebrating or not.
The last three months have not exactly been easy. The pregnancy symptoms were minimal – some nausea here and there, getting tired now and then. But, silencing that nagging little fear inside the heart was difficult..very.
Days passed on and there were no bad signs from where I could see. The first doctor appointment was nearing and I shuddered every time thinking of the possibility…doctor staring at the screen of that ultrasound machine and saying  ”Cannot find the baby. May be it has left”. I had no strength or courage to endure the agony again. No…
However, the prayers worked and nature was kind this time around. Me and the hubby could hardly  believe our eyes when the doctor showed us a tiny baby figure floating on that screen! And then there was a heartbeat!! A little flicker..strong and steady..lub-dub-lub-dub-lub-dub..
We hugged each other right there in front of the doctor and there were no words coming out..just some happy gasps and teary giggles.
Our baby has made it this time..has decided to come to us healthy and safe..
The prenatal visits and check ups so far have been fine. The last one was yesterday when I confirmed from the doctor that it was safe to announce our news to the world.
There is a long way to go until March 10 2010 (expected date of arrival), but it’s  time for me to sit back, relax and enjoy the ride now :)
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A little birdie from the internet told me that the baby is about 3.5 inches in size by now and already making tiny facial expressions – squint, frown, grimace and  possibly sucking thumb! :D While the liver, spleen and brain are developing rapidly, the baby is busy sleeping or stretching out and curling the toes :)
Send your good wishes and some prayers this way people…the little one and the anxious mommy need it at every growing stage now.
Know what? It feels great to tell it out here…it was as if I am hiding a big secret from a close friend all this while.
Phew! :)
I told her!

For the uninitiated, this is the sequel to my last post about the semi-naked, drunk girl friend on chat :D

After some thinking and after much reading the comments on the previous post, I  decided to let my satanic part win this time ;) . Well, I had some good intentions in letting her know too.

See it yourself on the email I wrote to her :

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How’s you doing? Hope all is well.

We had a long chat on Monday night (your time) and you sounded..err..weird :)

It was quite obvious you were slosh drunk then. Not sure if you remember now, but  do check the chat archive logs.

A couple of things -

If it was indeed you who typed all that, then seriously avoid coming on  chat/phone/email while drunk. There might be wrong people out there to misuse a  situation and that might be kind of dangerous. You know what I mean, yeah?

If it was not you who typed on chat that day , then make sure your account was not  hacked and used by somebody else. That thought it damn creepy!

Take care.

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I received a hasty little response from her the same day that said :

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I am fine. Very Sorry.. I shouldn’t have come online when I was drunk.

I just checked the chat archives..

Want to talk to you. Will catch you online without the booze this time :)

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The next day she popped up on the chat as soon as I logged in, as if she had been waiting!

Her name on chat involuntarily shot up a big red warning sign in my head. Thankfully, she was sane and sober this time.

Embarrassed apologies ensued, later followed by profuse requests not to divulge any of  what-took-place-that-night to her people, especially the husband!

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Her: I did all of it without the husband knowing. He still doesn’t have a clue. Let this remain between just the two of us, please.

Me: Sure, don’t worry. But, why didn’t you tell the husband?

Her: What should I tell? You tell me.

Me: You could say you had a couple of drinks..bit too much to handle and not mention about other things. To keep him informed, I guess.

Her: Hmm..I just had one glass you know?

Me: Haha! No way! That’s too less to get intoxicated :D

Her: Really!

Me: One glass of wine = Just half of the glass from the rim.

Her: I had a full glass … or was it a full bottle..oh, can’t recall.

Me: :D That’s all right. Forget it.

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At this point I actually started feeling sorry for her situation. So, a quick  change of topic had us talking a bit of work, a little of family and a lot of the good old school days !

Finally, it all ended nice..with smiles lingering afterwards:

She: Am really happy now that I have spoken to you about it..phew!

Me: Ditto here .

She: Good Night, Sleep tight :)

Me: May the Bed Bugs not bite :)

I know her from kindergarten. We went to the same school and then the same pre-university college. We were friends, not thick buddies, not great pals..just friends.
Tall, beautiful, athletic, talented – She was all this bundled up in a strong charming persona everyone seemed to admire. I did too, but not in the same light. I secretly envied her for all she was. Not that I was lesser, but just because I could not be her!
We parted ways soon after college and went on with our lives. I lost touch with  her, as with many from school until we bumped each other on a networking site  sometime back. She was married and was living a good life. I went through her  pictures and realized that I don’t feel the envious pangs anymore…but it had not died down either.
Yesterday, finally, the jealousy died. Just like that, it went away. It is since been replaced by a smug smirk ;)
Want to know how?
Out of the blue, she pinged me on chat yesterday. I was surprised since that was least expected. We were neither close enough or bothered to check on each other by any means, anytime before that.
She started with a casual ‘Hi, Are you there?’ and I responded. It was all normal conversation for a few minutes. But, what followed later, totally took me aback! While I am still shaking my head in disbelief, the chat log tells me it did really happen.
Here are the excerpts from the chat for you. You will know why I am holding back a chuckle and smiling a vicious smile now.
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She: Ok..going to sleep now
Me: Ok, Good night, Sleep tight and may the bed bugs not bite. Nice catching up  with you today. :)
She: You are making Me hot ;-)
Me: haha!!  :D   * ‘hehe..what??*
She: But Me alone na
Me: oh..why so? where’s hubby?
She: :-( He is out. So how about you?
Me: Its 12 noon on Monday and am at office now..
She: You in mood?
Me: * Gulp.What’s wrong with her?*  Not really , especially when you are in office  working on some boring stuff. But, looks like you are! Time to call up your guy, I  guess. :D
She: Will call him later. Do u know what dress I am in?
Me: * My tubelight brain just lighted up!*  Hey, one question..
She: Yes
Me: You been drinking?
She: No..yes..I mean not yet. Why?
Me: You sound different than I used to know..
She: Oh, its all because of …….the mood ;)
Me: Ok, I get it  *time to run away!*
She: what did you get?
Me: Chalo, will get back to working now, you get some sleep or maybe talk to your  guy.Take care, bye now
She: mmm..so you are going??
Me: Sorry, am in office and got loads of things to finish. Monday today na :(  * You better end it here miss or be prepared to be shit embarrassed tomorrow when you are sober *
She: Yes, Monday night for me…Ok, I had some wine.. nothing to hide..makes me feel gooooood.You know, I am just in my bra and panty.
Me: * OMG! Help!*  Wine is fine, I have it occasionally too. But I think u have had too much of it ..go sleep now, ok? I have gottu get back to work, really.
She: I didn’t know when to stop drinking..but, it’s really made me hot ;)
Me: * Uff!! You really need help girl * Hmm.I think you should drink only when  there are friends or people with you girl….getting drunk alone like this is not fun.
She: I was with my colleagues…As soon as I got home I removed all my clothes except bra and panty you know?
Me: * Gosh, this is getting freaky! * Hmm.. Take a nice shower then.
She: I feel so horny, not sure why..
Me: All the wine you had is acting up. Go take a shower and drink lots of  water..will make you feel better. * Phew! I am tired trying to put some sense here  *
She: Hmm..I am going to be on bed for some time and enjoy, ok ;)
Me: Go ahead, but I need to leave now. Bye * Run for your life! *
She: ok..catch u later..Good night
Me: ..
She: Tell na Good night ;)
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Not sure if she even remembered this chat when she woke up next day.
I have two options:
Leave her a line asking to check her chat log and imagine her going red with embarrassment.
OR
Act all zen by pretending nothing ever happened and move on.
The bad jealous part of me votes for the former, while the angelic halo part of me chooses the latter.
What do you say?

I know her from kindergarten. We went to the same school and then the same pre-university college. We were friends, not thick buddies, not great pals..just friends.

Tall, beautiful, athletic, talented – She was all this bundled up in a strong charming persona everyone seemed to admire. I did too, but not in the same light. I secretly envied her for all she was. Not that I was lesser, but just because I could not be her!

We parted ways soon after college and went on with our lives. I lost touch with  her, as with many from school until we bumped each other on a networking site  sometime back. She was married and was living a good life. I went through her  pictures and realized that I don’t feel the envious pangs anymore…but it had not died down either.

Yesterday, finally, the jealousy died. Just like that, it went away. It has since been replaced by a smug smirk ;)

Want to know how?

Out of the blue, she pinged me on chat yesterday. I was surprised since that was least expected. Not just because it was late at night in India. We were neither close enough nor bothered to check on each other by any means, anytime before that.

She started with a casual ‘Hi, Are you there?’ and I responded. It was all normal conversation for a few minutes. But, what followed later, totally took me aback! While I am still shaking my head in disbelief, the chat log tells me it did really happen.

Here are the excerpts from the chat for you. You will know why I am holding back a chuckle and smiling a vicious smile now.

———————————————–

She: Ok..going to sleep now

Me: Ok, Good night, Sleep tight and may the bed bugs not bite. Nice catching up  with you today. :)

She: You are making Me hot ;-)

Me: haha!!  :D   * ‘hehe..what??*

She: But me alone na

Me: oh..why so? where’s hubby?

She: :-( He is out. So how about you?

Me: Its 12 noon on Monday and am at office now..

She: You in mood?

Me: * Gulp.What’s wrong with her?* Not really , especially when you are in office  working on some boring stuff. But, looks like you are! Time to call up your guy, I  guess. :D

She: Will call him later. Do u know what dress I am in?

Me: * My tubelight brain just lighted up!* Hey, one question..

She: Yes

Me: You been drinking?

She: No..yes..I mean not yet. Why?

Me: You sound different than I used to know..

She: Oh, its all because of …….the mood ;)

Me: Ok, I get it  *time to run away!*

She: what did you get?

Me: Chalo, will get back to working now, you get some sleep or maybe talk to your  guy.Take care, bye now

She: mmm..so you are going??

Me: Sorry, am in office and got loads of things to finish. Monday today na :(    * You better end it here miss or be prepared to be shit embarrassed tomorrow when you are sober *

She: Yes, Monday night for me…Ok, I had some wine.. nothing to hide..makes me feel gooooood.You know, I am just in my bra and panty.

Me: * OMG! Help!* Wine is fine, I have it occasionally too. But I think you have had too much of it ..go sleep now, ok? I have gottu get back to work, really.

She: I didn’t know when to stop drinking..but, it’s really made me hot ;)

Me: * Uff!! You really need help girl * Hmm.I think you should drink only when  there are friends or people with you girl….getting drunk alone like this is not fun.

She: I was with my colleagues…As soon as I got home I removed all my clothes except bra and panty you know?

Me: * Gosh, this is getting freaky! * Hmm.. Take a nice shower then.

She: I feel so horny, not sure why..

Me: All the wine you had is acting up. Go take a shower and drink lots of  water..will make you feel better. * Phew! I am tired trying to put some sense here  *

She: Hmm..I am going to be on bed for some time and enjoy, ok ;)

Me: Go ahead, but I need to leave now. Bye  * Run for your life! *

She: ok..catch you later..Good night

Me: ..

She: Tell na.. Good night ;)

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Not sure if she even remembered this chat when she woke up next day.

I have two options:

Leave her a line asking to check her chat log and imagine her going red with embarrassment.

OR

Act all zen by pretending nothing ever happened and move on.

The bad jealous part of me votes for the former, while the angelic halo part of me chooses the latter.

What do you say? :)

A high spirited, chirpy new friend of mine tagged me quite some time back.

Quoting the clichéd ‘better late than never’, here is the list of my domestic horrors:

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I am this just-married brand new bride who does not know the in-law’s language and hence communicates with them mostly in English or sign language.  It is only a couple of days with the in-laws and the MIL switches over from English to her native language (Tamil) without any warning! I smile or nod stupidly at everything she says, with no clue about the meaning whatsoever ;)

One fine morning I am seated in the living room with the newspaper when MIL walks by saying something in Tamil. I nod with a smile, as usual, before getting back to the newspaper.

In a few minutes, I smell something burning. But, I had no reason to worry – MIL was in charge of the kitchen anyway, I thought. The smell just kept getting worse and I opened the windows and doors to drive it out. Finally, when there was no sign of the stink subsiding, I entered the kitchen to find NOBODY there, but a vessel full of milk boiling and spilling out into the flames !!

Apparently, the MIL had told me in her PUREST form of Tamil that she was going out for a while and there is milk boiling on the stove. Bah! I was embarrassed to bits when FIL and my other half laughed hard at my horror stricken face.

But, heaven knows I wanted to shout at the MIL and say- “You could have cut some slack and told it in English for this poor Non-Tamil soul here, no??!”

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Me and H moved into our first little rented house in Bangalore a little after the wedding and set up a ‘home’ together. After recovering from the initial shock to learn that I am in charge of the kitchen all by myself with no help, I got to serious business. From cooking rice to making sambhar and curry – H yielded ( had no other way, I guess) to be the guinea pig for my culinary experiments ;) Some misses and some hits, but I grew more confident by the day.

One morning, when H was away in office, I was frying some veggies but got distracted and went away to the other room, only to come back and find all my hard work turned to black charcoal in the pan.I couldn’t take that kind of insult on my attempts (ahem), picked up the purse and walked out to a nearest restaurant.

I came back home with a big styrofoam box full of hot spicy curry, nicely transferred it into a fresh vessel, stirred it with a spoon and covered with a lid. H came home for lunch those days because I was not yet working then. Plus, he loved the yummy home made food his new wife made ( or so I like to believe). No doubt, the ’special curry’ received much compliments and I was praised to no end…he thought I had finally got there! ( where?)

Only a couple of years later, when I had indeed mastered most of his favorite dishes did I let him into the truth of the special curry he enjoyed so much one day and wondered why I did not make it that way ever again ! :D

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I was working on a project assignment and moved to the US for the first time, alone. I was put up in a company provided fully furnished apartment. It had a beautiful kitchen with all amenities – Fridge and Oven to vessels and spoons, you name it. I mostly cooked, but ordered in on lazy days. The leftover pizza that I ordered on one of those days was packed in a silver foil and kept aside for dinner. At night, I promptly picked it up , with the silver foil et all , put it in the microwave and pressed ‘Start’.

It took only a few seconds before fumes started emerging out wickedly. I was too nervous to even get closer and switch off. But, thankfully, it switched off on its own soon… after a loud explosion creating a big hole  on the microwave door :D

My company was too kind and paid the damage costs while the apartment people left me with a warning only.Why? Maybe because the whole thing did not involve a fire engine and police knocking on their doors. Hehehe.

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Cannot think of any major horror story since then. Oh, that translates to “I have now become so much responsible and cautious and superb at all I do in the kitchen ..I am simply – awesomely – fantastically GREAT!”

Ok, not exactly that..but something like that :P

What’s your part of the horror story?

Lunch break conversation in the cafeteria:
Me: So, what do you have for breakfast?
DesiColleagueGuy1: Parathey
Me: Daily?
DesiColleagueGuy1: Yes, my wife wakes up early and makes them for me everyday.
Me: Wow!!
DesiColleagueGuy2: Why do you act so shocked? His wife is just being a good  ’Bharatiya Naari’.
Me: What? Why do you label it that? Who set the benchmark for a Bharatiya Naari ?
DesiColleagueGuy2:Now don’t act all non-feminist. I just spoke fact.
Me: Firstly, it is ‘feminist’ and not ‘non’.Do you even know what it means?
DesiColleagueGuy2: Whatever..
Me: The ‘Bharatiya Naari’ and its specifications all came from men.
DesiColleagueGuy2: So what?
Me: If women were given a chance they would change the definition of Bharatiya Naari, am sure.
DesiColleagueGuy2: Haha, who stopped them?
Me: Now, don’t get me started man,. From time immemorial women have been treated inferior by men. Mostly because men are physically stronger.
DesiColleagueGuy1: How can you say that? I think it is more to do with mental  strength and intelligence.
Me: And how is that?
DesiColleagueGuy1: Look, if women had enough mental strength and smartness to break the rules and go ahead, they would have! No man could have stopped them.
Me: You mean women were treated inferior because they were less smarter than men?
DesiColleagueGuy2: Of course! We even have a saying in my native language for that. Translates to say “smartness of a woman is lesser than the sole of her feet”
Me: Wha..???
DesiColleagueGuy1: So, it has all to do with mental abilities ..and why men claimed superiority
Me: Huh? I will never accept women are any lesser than men when it comes to brains. I think it all started with physical differences. Men kept women subdued because  they were the weaker of the sexes, physically. Since the age old days, men were the ones who built countries and formed laws.Women were hardly in picture!
DesiColleagueGuy1: Ah…Why were they not in picture? Because they  were not smart enough.
Me: You don’t get my point!
DesiColleagueGuy2: All this argument because you don’t make paratheys for your husband every morning? Hahaha
Me: #%^&*)%%^&*(@$%% !!
Either my route to the argument was wrong or those two MCP’s were just not getting it.
What do you think? For centuries, women were treated inferior by men. Things have changed/are changing for the better now..but how did it all start?
Was it physical differences or was there something else to it?

Lunch break conversation in the cafeteria:

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Me: So, what do you have for breakfast usually?

DesiColleagueGuy1: Parathey

Me: Daily?

DesiColleagueGuy1: Yes, my wife wakes up early and makes them for me everyday.

Me: Wow!!

DesiColleagueGuy2:  Why do you act so shocked? His wife is just being a good  ’Bharatiya Naari’.

Me: What? Why do you label it that? Who set the benchmark for a Bharatiya Naari ?

DesiColleagueGuy2: Now don’t act all non-feminist. I just spoke fact.

Me: Firstly, it is ‘feminist’ without a ”non’. Do you even know what it means?

DesiColleagueGuy2: Whatever..

Me: The ‘Bharatiya Naari’ and its specifications all came from men.

DesiColleagueGuy2: So what?

Me: If women were given a chance they would change the definition of Bharatiya Naari, am sure.

DesiColleagueGuy2: Haha, who stopped them?

Me: Now, don’t get me started man.. .from time immemorial women have been treated inferior by men. Mostly because men are physically stronger.

DesiColleagueGuy1: How can you say that? I think it is more to do with mental  strength and intelligence.

Me: And how is that?

DesiColleagueGuy1: Look, if women had enough mental strength and smartness to break the rules and go ahead, they would have! No man could have stopped them.

Me: You mean women were treated low because they were not as smart as men?

DesiColleagueGuy2: Of course! We even have a saying in my native language which translates to say “smartness of a woman is lesser than the sole of her feet” Hehe.

Me: Wha..???

DesiColleagueGuy1: So, it has all to do with mental abilities ..and why men claimed superiority

Me: Huh? I will never accept women are any lesser than men when it comes to brains. I think it all started with physical differences. Men kept women subdued because  they were the weaker of the sexes, physically. Since the age old days, men were the ones who built countries and formed laws.Women were hardly in picture!

DesiColleagueGuy1: Ah…Why were they not in picture? Because they  were not smart enough.

Me: You don’t get my point!

DesiColleagueGuy2: All this argument because you don’t make paratheys for your husband every morning? Hahaha

Me: #%^&*)%%^&*(@$%%

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Either my route to the argument was not strong enough or those two MCP’s were just not getting it.

What do you think?  Bharatiya or not, for centuries, women were treated inferior by men. Things have changed/are changing for the better now..but how did it all start?

Was it physical differences or was there something else to it?

Imagine a dark night, standing in the middle of a forest, cold breeze making a compelling whisper and there is a sudden hoot heard from a distance…Ok, that was a lame attempt at painting a scary picture. My recent ‘camping in the wilderness’ experience was anything but scary :)

Humboldt Redwood State Park was the venue .

It was the first time camping, for us as well as for our camping mates (another couple, Pr the husband and Lx the wife.) But tips and pointers from a dozen experienced people did us good. Tents and tools, blankets and buckets, matchbox and masalas – we arrived all prepared..or so we thought.

First thing we did after setting up the tent was to get out the stove and make some hot masala chai.Just when all were patting own backs for a task accomplished, one asked ‘Where’s the strainer?”. Never would anyone realize the dire importance of a tea strainer until you are stuck without one on a cold evening in the middle of the jungle ..and with some smoking hot chai waiting to be filtered and sipped. Arrgh! Anyways, it took only a few minutes before we came up with an alternative – paper towel. It took patient minutes of slow and steady pouring, but it worked! Here is the proof :D

Me with Pb at a mission ;)

Me with Pr at a mission ;)

Later in the evening, a leisurely walk in the woods, hand in hand with H was rejuvenating…like untying some knots from the inner being and setting them free.

Stroll

It was darker and colder soon. The able men of the  21st century took more than 10 minutes to figure out the right way to set up a camp fire before we could finally sit and warm ourselves :D

An elaborate dinner prep ensued and though it took little more than an hour, our menu read like this -

Grilled corn on the cob with salt, pepper and lemon rubbed on

Grilled and fried potatoes with a good dash of salt and chili powder

Readymade Parathas and paneer palak reheated to perfection

Dahi/yogurt for the sides

Pickles of 3 variety

Cookies for desert

All of the above washed down along a glass of wine..that’s one awesome feeling right there!

 

After a while we retired for the night with a sleeping bag and a book into our tents  and called it a day..a fulfilling day :)

Retiring

Night was in fact the toughest part. Three layers of clothing, a fleece blanket under a thick insulation sleeping bag and still it felt cold!

In hardly 30 minutes, we heard Pr calling out for H . It was getting hard to breathe, he said. H tried to keep a calm outlook and asked him to try doing the inhale-exhale deeply. He came out of the tent,  tried exactly that and immediately felt better. The reason for the temporary breathing problem was because his body did not like the enclosed space he was lying in. Pr and H set out in the car looking for a motel to sleep…it was midnight. I lie in my tent, tightly closed eyes, pretending to have fallen asleep in that pitch darkness. Lx was also around, but no help at all. For the kind of condescendingly cold person she is, I am not sure if she was even worried for her husband. No kidding!

The boys returned in some time and complained there was no place to stay around the forest. Duh ?! Finally Pr and Lx moved out  and slept on the comfy reclining seats in the car .

Dawn broke and I woke up to the sounds of woodpeckers busy at work. The morning was a magnificent sight. How often do you open your eyes to something like this?

Morning lights

Those ultra maintained common shower rooms and rest rooms for campers was a blessing. I can live natural..but..err..not having to look for bushes or wide trees to do your daily job..hehe.

Kudos to the H’s planning, we spent the morning playing amidst those pleasant green surroundings. Collecting the Shuttle Cork and Frisbee back when they flew into broken twigs or thorny bushes did not seem like a big deal at all!

After a quick breakfast, we packed our swim suits and set out to a river nearby. While the day was sunny enough for the guys to open up chilled beer cans, the river water gave us shivers. So it was just wetting our feet and posing for some pics..and of course munching on the salt snacks we brought along.

Riverside

It was lunch time and we soon were back at our camp site lighting our stove. By then it was pretty obvious that Pr is a thoroughly helpful and friendly person while Lx is just the opposite. She just stood there carelessly watching us work, occasionally lifting a random object off the table and asking me ‘ where should I keep this?’. Super Annoying. I sure grumbled in my head ‘ Does this look like my private kitchen? Find your work and be a team member if you can, missy’. 

The drive to the ‘Avenue of Giants’ through the forest roads was so amazing that we had to stop mid way to take it all in. I was acting like a crazy monkey-brand in the middle of the road..too happy to be there, I guess ;)

Crazy

The rest half of the day was spent trekking in that wilderness- one of the most gorgeous I have ever seen. The narrow mud path among the giant redwoods humbles you. Each one of those trees age back a thousand years…and every single tree releases more then 500 gallons of water into the air, in a single day! ( yeah, yeah..I read the facts).

Now, tell me, does this picture remind you of Jurassic park? I waited to spot a T-Rex too :P

JurassicPark

On the way back to the camp site, the boys made a spontaneous decision and turned the car towards one other popular spot nearby, the Trinidad beach. It was an hour long drive and though hungry and tired by then, we got out of the car for a view like this… and forgot everything else.

Trinidad Beach

Walking down the steps towards the beach, humming a silly song ..

Steps

I remember standing still near that rock and heartily thanking God – for making earth so beautiful and putting me in it to savor every bit.

Thoughts

Next day, bidding good bye was hard, but we knew we were not going back empty. 

We had the greenest of memories and the most gratifying of moments to take back home with us….much more than asked for :)

 

Imagine a dark night, standing in the middle of a forest, cold breeze making a compelling whisper and there is a sudden hoot heard from a distance.Ok, that was a lame attempt at painting a scary picture. My recent ‘camping in the wilderness’ experience was anything but scary :)
Humboldt Redwood State Park was the venue.( http://www.humboldtredwoods.org/ ).It was the first time camping, for us as well as for our camping mates (another couple, Pb the husband and Lx the wife.) But tips and pointers from a dozen experienced people did us good. Tents and tools, blankets and buckets, matchbox and masalas – we arrived all prepared..or so we thought. First thing we did after setting up the tent was to get out the stove and make some hot masala chai.Just when all were patting own backs for a task accomplished, one asked ‘Where’s the strainer?”. Never would anyone realize the dire importance of a tea strainer until you are stuck without one on a cold evening in the middle of the jungle and with some smoking hot chai smoking waiting to be filtered and sipped. Arrgh! Anyways, it took only a few minutes before we came up with an alternative – paper towel. It took patient minutes of slow and steady pouring, but it worked! Here is the proof :D
Photo
Later in the evening, a leisurely walk in the woods, hand in hand with H was rejuvenating…like untying some knots from the inner being and setting them free.
Photo
It was darker and colder soon. The able men of the  21st century took more than 10 minutes to figure out the right way to set up a camp fire before we could finally sit and warm ourselves :D
An elaborate dinner prep ensued and though it took little more than an hour, our menu read like this -
Grilled corn on the cob with salt, pepper and lemon rubbed in
Grilled and fried potatoes with a good dash of salt and chili powder
Readymade Parathas and paneer palak reheated to perfection
Dahi/yogurt for the sides
Pickles of 3 variety
Cookies for desert
All of the above washed down along a glass of wine..that’s one awesome feeling right there!
After a while we retired for the night with a sleeping bag and a book into our tents, we called it a day..fulfilling day :)
Photo
Night was in fact the toughest part. Three layers of clothing, a fleece blanket under a thick insulation sleeping bag and still it felt cold. I was somehow falling asleep when Pr called out for H and worriedly said he is unable to sleep..or breathe! H tried to keep a calm outlook and asked him to try doing the inhale-exhale deeply. He came out of the tent and tried it and immediately felt better. The reason for the temporary breathing problem was because his body did not like the enclosed space he was lying in. Pr and H set out in the car looking for a motel to sleep…it was midnight. I lie in my tent, tightly closed eyes, pretending to have fallen asleep in that pitch darkness.Lx was also around, but no help at all. For the kind of condescendingly cold kind of person she is, I am not sure if she was even worried for her husband. No kidding!
The boys returned in some time and complained there was no place to stay around the forest. Duh ?! Finally Pr and Lx moved out of tents and slept in the car reclining the comfy seats to the fullest.
Dawn broke and I woke up to the sounds of woodpeckers busy at work, pecking at trees. How often do you open your eyes to something like this?
Photo
Those ultra maintained common shower rooms and rest rooms for campers was a blessing. I can live wild..but..err..not having to look for bushes and wide trees to do your job..hehe.
Kudos to the H’s planning, we spent the morning playing amidst those pleasant green surroundings. Collecting the Shuttle Cork and Frisbee back when they flew into some broken twigs or thorny bushes did not seem like a big deal at all!
After a quick breakfast, we packed up our swim suits and set out to a river nearby. while the day was sunny enough for the guys to open up chilled beer cans, the river water gave us shivers. So it was just wetting our feet and posing for some pics..and of course munching on the salt snacks seated on the sands.
Photo
It was lunch time and we were soon back at our camp site lighting our stove. By then it was pretty obvious that Pr is a thoroughly helpful and friendly person while Lx was just the opposite. She just stood there carelessly watching us work, occasionally lifting a random object off the table and asking me ‘ where should I keep this?’. Super Annoying. I sure grumbled in my head ‘ Does this look like my private kitchen? Find your work and be a team member if you can, missy’. 
The drive to the ‘Avenue of Giants’ through the forest roads was so amazing that we had to stop mid way to take it all in. I was acting like a crazy monkey brand in the middle of the road..too happy to be there, I guess ;)
Photo
The rest half of the day was spent trekking in that wilderness- one of the most gorgeous I have ever seen. The narrow mud path among the giant redwoods humbles you. Each one of those trees age back a thousand years…and every single tree produces more then 500 gallons of water in a single day! ( yeah, yeah..I read the facts).
Now, tell me, does this remind you of Jurassic park? I waited to spot a T-Rex too :P
Photo
On the way back to the camp site, the boys made a spontaneous decision and turned the car towards one other popular spot nearby. It was an hour long driving distance. Though hungry and tired by then, we go out of the car for a view like this, and forgot everything else.
Photo
Walking down the steps towards the beach, humming a silly song ..
I remember standing still near that rock and heartily thanking God – for making earth so beautiful and putting me in it to savor every bit.
Photo
Next day, bidding good bye was hard, but we knew we were not going back empty. 
We had the greenest of memories and the most gratifying of moments to take back home with us….and that was more than enough :)
Imagine a dark night, standing in the middle of a forest, cold breeze making a compelling whisper and there is a sudden hoot heard from a distance.Ok, that was a lame attempt at painting a scary picture. My recent ‘camping in the wilderness’ experience was anything but scary :)
Humboldt Redwood State Park was the venue.( http://www.humboldtredwoods.org/ ).It was the first time camping, for us as well as for our camping mates (another couple, Pb the husband and Lx the wife.) But tips and pointers from a dozen experienced people did us good. Tents and tools, blankets and buckets, matchbox and masalas – we arrived all prepared..or so we thought. First thing we did after setting up the tent was to get out the stove and make some hot masala chai.Just when all were patting own backs for a task accomplished, one asked ‘Where’s the strainer?”. Never would anyone realize the dire importance of a tea strainer until you are stuck without one on a cold evening in the middle of the jungle and with some smoking hot chai smoking waiting to be filtered and sipped. Arrgh! Anyways, it took only a few minutes before we came up with an alternative – paper towel. It took patient minutes of slow and steady pouring, but it worked! Here is the proof :D
Photo
Later in the evening, a leisurely walk in the woods, hand in hand with H was rejuvenating…like untying some knots from the inner being and setting them free.
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It was darker and colder soon. The able men of the  21st century took more than 10 minutes to figure out the right way to set up a camp fire before we could finally sit and warm ourselves :D
An elaborate dinner prep ensued and though it took little more than an hour, our menu read like this -
Grilled corn on the cob with salt, pepper and lemon rubbed in
Grilled and fried potatoes with a good dash of salt and chili powder
Readymade Parathas and paneer palak reheated to perfection
Dahi/yogurt for the sides
Pickles of 3 variety
Cookies for desert
All of the above washed down along a glass of wine..that’s one awesome feeling right there!
After a while we retired for the night with a sleeping bag and a book into our tents, we called it a day..fulfilling day :)
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Night was in fact the toughest part. Three layers of clothing, a fleece blanket under a thick insulation sleeping bag and still it felt cold. I was somehow falling asleep when Pr called out for H and worriedly said he is unable to sleep..or breathe! H tried to keep a calm outlook and asked him to try doing the inhale-exhale deeply. He came out of the tent and tried it and immediately felt better. The reason for the temporary breathing problem was because his body did not like the enclosed space he was lying in. Pr and H set out in the car looking for a motel to sleep…it was midnight. I lie in my tent, tightly closed eyes, pretending to have fallen asleep in that pitch darkness.Lx was also around, but no help at all. For the kind of condescendingly cold kind of person she is, I am not sure if she was even worried for her husband. No kidding!
The boys returned in some time and complained there was no place to stay around the forest. Duh ?! Finally Pr and Lx moved out of tents and slept in the car reclining the comfy seats to the fullest.
Dawn broke and I woke up to the sounds of woodpeckers busy at work, pecking at trees. How often do you open your eyes to something like this?
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Those ultra maintained common shower rooms and rest rooms for campers was a blessing. I can live wild..but..err..not having to look for bushes and wide trees to do your job..hehe.
Kudos to the H’s planning, we spent the morning playing amidst those pleasant green surroundings. Collecting the Shuttle Cork and Frisbee back when they flew into some broken twigs or thorny bushes did not seem like a big deal at all!
After a quick breakfast, we packed up our swim suits and set out to a river nearby. while the day was sunny enough for the guys to open up chilled beer cans, the river water gave us shivers. So it was just wetting our feet and posing for some pics..and of course munching on the salt snacks seated on the sands.
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It was lunch time and we were soon back at our camp site lighting our stove. By then it was pretty obvious that Pr is a thoroughly helpful and friendly person while Lx was just the opposite. She just stood there carelessly watching us work, occasionally lifting a random object off the table and asking me ‘ where should I keep this?’. Super Annoying. I sure grumbled in my head ‘ Does this look like my private kitchen? Find your work and be a team member if you can, missy’. 
The drive to the ‘Avenue of Giants’ through the forest roads was so amazing that we had to stop mid way to take it all in. I was acting like a crazy monkey brand in the middle of the road..too happy to be there, I guess ;)
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The rest half of the day was spent trekking in that wilderness- one of the most gorgeous I have ever seen. The narrow mud path among the giant redwoods humbles you. Each one of those trees age back a thousand years…and every single tree produces more then 500 gallons of water in a single day! ( yeah, yeah..I read the facts).
Now, tell me, does this remind you of Jurassic park? I waited to spot a T-Rex too :P
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On the way back to the camp site, the boys made a spontaneous decision and turned the car towards one other popular spot nearby. It was an hour long driving distance. Though hungry and tired by then, we go out of the car for a view like this, and forgot everything else.
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Walking down the steps towards the beach, humming a silly song ..
I remember standing still near that rock and heartily thanking God – for making earth so beautiful and putting me in it to savor every bit.
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Next day, bidding good bye was hard, but we knew we were not going back empty. 
We had the greenest of memories and the most gratifying of moments to take back home with us….and that was more than enough :)

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